Take a moment right now, think, reflect, and consider the men in your life and the men of the past that you have respect, ask yourself what is a consistent thread that all these men have.
Chances are they will be dependable, honest, safe, respectable, and many other attributes, but here is the thing, none of these qualities are just handed out at the local charity. No, these core qualities are developed, earned, and built. The men who you respect have held onto their values, they have said no and yes when appropriate and stuck to their word.